Abused, & Used

[&catchme]

Okay, I REALLY hope you can help me and won't give me the typical : "DUMP HIM!" advice like everyone else. Here's the LONG complicated problem:

Okay so about...almost 7 months ago I started dating this 16 year old guy in Arizona. And well a few weeks not too long ago, I found out the DEVIL ( even his parents call her this) Candice his now ex who he was suppose to break up with the day before he met me and him NEVER BROKE UP. And he used me to cover HER up. Well then , a week AFTER this. ( Last saturday) He was heading to work, but ended up being late so his mom called him 7 TIMES. He didn't answer, she went looking for him and found him KISSING A GIRL NAMED TINA. Who he had been texting while dating me AND candice. Then his sister whos 11 has been beeing a real BRAT latley and told me Tina was her new friend and that they hung out at the carnival the other night!!! Most likley WITH HIM!!! He's had his phone tooken since he kissed tina... so he hasn't been able to talk. His sister really set me off today... he has diabetes so I've always tried to take care of him and learn about his disease... and I've always forgave and given him another chance... though he always let me down... and I think he's out of his hard position ... and wants her... but I haven't talked to him so I don't know for sure....

I don't know what to do, I don't really want to break up with him, stupid I know.... but I don't know. I kinda do... but I just don't at the same time...

Should I talk to him?
I know he wants to change... least I THOUGht He did... now maybe he wants Tina...


Oh Idk.

[Sugar]

Wow, that sucks! Wait, I can still give you advice. So I will as well. So let me get this all figured out he was dating You, Tina and Candace all at once? That's bad..... I think the only reason you don't want to break up with him is either you still have feelings for him because 7 months is a long time or on the other hand that you feel sorry for him for having diabetes. I think he did the wrong thing. When did this happen? Anyways, first of all you have to talk to him first, because he might've not meant to do the silly thing he did. Talk it out and solve your problems. HE has to choose between you or the other girls because he can't date all 3 of u that would make him a player. Anyways, then if he does have true sincere feelings for you since you've been dating him for 7 months then he would probably choose you but if he doesn't well, you can at least be friends if not the least frenemies. Lol, so yeah. Naz will come on and give you better advice so just be patient. I'll tell her you need advice, that's my job.

[Naz]

That's an interesting story and a weird one at that. There's not much I can say.
But, i can say is that, he isn't a very good guy if he dated all three of you, even if he is the most handsome guy in the world. personality matters, even if he diabetes. I have 2 friend who have diabetes, and i feel sorry for them all the time because they aren't allowed to eat any sugar and that sucks. But that's his problem not yours. If he did something like that to you, you shouldn't...err, dump him, but talk it out with him. Let him explain, "conversation is key." <-- i learnt that from experience.
Do you guys go to the same school? And how old are you, you don't have to answer that. But let me tell you, i know guys in high school. Most of them are players, only some are true. They like to fool around with girls, they think that girls come and go, they just want to try each one of them. He wanted to try you, tina and candice. He can't choose, he probably likes all of you. If he does, you should definitely ask him whom he likes better. If not you, then, I'm sorry to say, but you have to dump him; even if he has diabetes. You gave him chances, if he doesn't take them seriously then you've got to let it go.

[&catchme]

He's not dating all of us, and no it's not cause I feel sorry for him having diabetes. I care about him and love him. I'm just going to talk to him about it.

[Naz]

you should definitely do that. Tell me how it goes, it's okay if you don't want to though

[&catchme]

Alrighty I will.
Thank you .

[Naz]

I'm glad (: