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Post by Naz on May 6, 2009 16:10:48 GMT -5
you should definitely keep hanging out with him. even if it's awkward, then slowly see if he asks you out, if not, then go for it  |
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Post by biggestjonasfan on May 6, 2009 21:06:13 GMT -5
I can't. He can't date untill he is 18 years old. Which is in 5 years.
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Post by Naz on May 7, 2009 15:48:15 GMT -5
well then, i'm sorry, but unless you can convince his parents, there's no other way. and you've got to have a lot of charisma. have you met his parents before?
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Post by &catchme on May 7, 2009 23:54:30 GMT -5
I think you should try talking to his parents, you seem like a great girl .  And they just might make an exception. (: But you also need to talk to this guy to. Straighten things out, be honest, and play it cool! Also, if you haven't met his parents making a good and honest impression might help! (: |
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Post by biggestjonasfan on May 8, 2009 23:21:12 GMT -5
I really don't think they will budge on the whole dating thing. His family, is Christian, and they are pretty strick about some things. Like dating.. But, I am going to be hanging out with him soon, which is good.
Also, at youth group this week, his older sister, Carly we'll call her, said that all the men in his family have married older women.. Now I am not saying I want to marry the kid, yet. But i mean, what's before marriage? Dating... Could it be a possible sign that we will date sometime in the future?
Also, when he left, he kept waving at me and stuff. And he was kinda, sorta hanging out with me.. He talked to me a little, but kinda kept away... Just a little though. During the Bible part of the youth, we sat next to eachother. Which was nice.. haha..
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Post by *Rhi* on May 9, 2009 9:21:32 GMT -5
Ok guys are so complecated but i think you should go up to him next time you have that you should go up to him and say "hey there is a rumor going around that you like me is that true? if he says yes and if he ask you if you like him say ya i do but i dont want other people to know so ya can you not tell anyone." Like that i had the same thing that is happening to you i have really good advice on this but thats what i did and he later on went well would you go out with me? so ya and maybe you should talk to his parents you should like say i am a really sweet girl and i wouldnt do anything bad to him and i would never mean to hurt his feelings. Maybe you should try that. Lol
Sorry naz i just wanted to help with this one is that okay?
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Post by &catchme on May 9, 2009 16:12:10 GMT -5
^^ Good advice.
Of course it's okay, like Naz said members can help. But just not too much.
Since it's called Naz Advice. (:
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Post by Naz on May 9, 2009 17:07:38 GMT -5
Yep, it's okay. Colette's right. You can give advice. You should do that biggestjonasfan, it might help. I can tell that he really really likes you |
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Post by biggestjonasfan on May 9, 2009 17:41:32 GMT -5
Okay, so i think i am gonna do it.. I am gonna go up to him and be like, "So Liz thinks you like me? Is that true?" and i think he will say no, just cuz thats like what you do.. but I will like be like "I won't tell anyone if it is. I think it's kinda cute" or something like that.. Haha, he just signed on msn and i was gonna say it, but he signed out too fast..  haha. wish me luck.. i will let you know how it goes! |
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Post by *Rhi* on May 9, 2009 20:08:10 GMT -5
I give good advice bout that and ya that is perfect tell us how it goes lol
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Post by Naz on May 9, 2009 20:15:04 GMT -5
awesome! good plan, can't wait to hear what he says |
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Post by *Rhi* on May 10, 2009 15:48:28 GMT -5
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Same here Naz
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Post by biggestjonasfan on May 15, 2009 15:21:29 GMT -5
Okay, so, here is what happend this week at youth:
I got there, and was waiting around for my friend (his sister) to get there. Once she got there i ran out and greeted her and then she commented on my hair, cuz i got a new hair cut. But he didn't say anything. Then we started playing capture the flag and we were on the same team. We went and hid the flag, then he made a plan with me to try and get the other teams flag. that didn't work he started yelling at me cuz i wouldnt run, but anyway. Me and his sister started running on the other teams side, and i had lost my shoes, so i asked him if he could bring them to me. HE DID (: ! He brought me my shoes, but said that he was gonna "hide" them, he teased me a little with them, but later gave them up. THEN we went in and talked about a fundrasier we are going to be having, and i think he wanted to be in my group, but we weren't in the same group. But when i was walking by I waved and smiled, and HE WAVED AND SMILED BACK! (: afterwards we both voted for the others idea. Then we kinda sat near eachother for snack, and when they were leaving, I stood near their car, and we just talked. About how his msn has a virus and i needed his new email. THATS RIGHT! HE GAVE ME HIS NEW EMAIL! (: soo happy you have no idea.
So, incase you guys didn't know, I totally chickened out on the whole Do you like me idea. But now that I have his new email. I can ask him online. Which will be so much easier.
Any suggestions on what I should do?
Any comments on what happend?
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Post by Naz on May 15, 2009 18:26:13 GMT -5
that's pretty normal. he should have commented on your hair, but boys don't really do that, so don't worry, it's kind of a girl thing. And it's okay that he told you to run, boys are very competitive. don't worry about it. But by the signs of it all, it sounds like he likes you! And the fact that he gave you his email is really cool. I 'm not sure if you want to ask him face to face or on email. But if you are shy then you can ask him on MSN, give it a try. |
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Post by *Rhi* on May 16, 2009 7:51:04 GMT -5
I agree with Naz. If you do have his MSN then you should deffintly try that on there instead in person.
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